My darling hubby J,
You would perhaps find this a bit childish, but this is what I really feel about you and why I love you. I believe it is really really important that you know why I love you and I accept you totally the way you are.
You are a fantastic human being, (well, isn't that reason enough?!). Need I elaborate? Nevertheless, by fantastic I mean the integrity of your character, the values and ethics (being truthful, honest and genuine) you hold close to your heart and the way you respect others and their way of thinking. I am a fan of your personality.
I love the way you balance humility, modesty, self respect and confidence. You are amazing at that. That I think, also gives you the power to detect your own flaws too! All this is important, because there is a thin line between vanity and self confidence.
You inspire me to be like you (obviously not when you have those fits of temper!), but when you are at your best, in whatever you take up in life. Your tenacity, your perseverance motivates me to the core and makes me want to be as independent and determined as I can be!
Now darling, enough of beating around the bush! I would get straight to the point now! I love the way you love me and make me feel special. I think that says it all, but let me elucidate. I adore the way you look at me with your sincere and warm eyes with love and a feeling of companionship. I love the way you never shy away or get tired of telling me how much you love me which strengthens our relationship day by day.
I love you because you make me laugh, whenever I am at my all time low. That is one of most important reasons to love someone according to me. You know how to keep things light and easy when they tend not to be exactly that! That is also what precisely leads you to have such a positive and refreshing attitude towards life, which is simply amazing!
You are always there when I need you. You have an ability to see beyond my self-protective "I don't need help" stance. You see that I need help, and you are there. No questions, no expectations, no demands.
You annoy me at times. But, I still long for you when you are not around. You have the ability to get to me. Your stupid antics make me smile, laugh as well as get angry. But, even when I pretend to be angry or annoyed, I know that I just want you by my side.
You protects me, physically and emotionally and I always feel safe around you. When you sees me walking through a crowd, I see your face light up. You look at me with love and not lust. Yes, I know you longs to touch me, but you never forced your desires over my comfort. You don't call me sexy but you call me beautiful.
You accepted me for who I am even with my flaws while others might turn their back on me. You love me for who I am and not who someone expected me to be.
You care for my folks and their well-beings even though you don't have to. You love them unconditional and care for them with your compassion. You accept my family as your very own just because you love me.
Well, actually, if I go on, the list of reasons to love you can be endless, especially when it is me loving you!
I could say that you complete me…but that would be a lie, because every morning when I wake, I long for you more than the day before. Therefore my dear hubby J, I close this letter here with all of my loves!
